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Thursday, October 13, 2005
"" - posted by michy at 10:28 PM
i wonder how girls my age live peacefully with their dads. if only there was a manual that teaches people how to communicate effectively with "THE MAN" society thinks its the age gap problem (i think), or its the rebellious phase in a child's life. but from a teenager's point of view, i think its the build up of anger and hatred from past experiences that cause a father-child r/s to turn sour. a r/s doesnt turn sour overnight.be it a boy-girl r/s or a friendship. i find it so hard to talk to my dad. i've tried being patient and stuff but after a while, as the conversation progresses, i start to lose my cool and get irritated again. right now, i try not to talk to him. currently, our only conversations are ' bathe the hamster', ' turn the volume down', 'do you want more food'. i do feel sad that it has come to this state. but i'd raher avoid quarreling then try to make conversations.
parents often say they arent biased. bible says man SHOULD NOT be biased. but parents ARE biased. what liars. i used to think my parents werent biased. but i was wrong. maybe i was and still am such a rotten kid that made them unable to toleratemy nonsense. i guess showing favouritism is part of human nature. i cant say for sure i wont do that to my child.
life sux.
famile just make things worse.

Fathers be good to your daughters
Daughters will love like you do
Girls become lovers who turn into mothers
So mothers be good to your daughters too